Wrong Or Right? ‘Emo’

Emo is a word used by many people nowadays to describe the emotion of someone..

When you are sitting alone in a corner: Emo
When your emotion changes from happy to sad: Emo

What exactly is emo? I don’t know..

But depression has somehow made a new friend: Emo

Emo is often linked to sadness and loneliness. When you are silent with a crowd or playing alone with yourself, you’re considered emo-ing..

Emo may lead to depression..
Depression may lead to hurting oneself..
Hurting may lead to death

Are you showing cases of emo-ing?
Using my personal experience, I have come out with several possible points and solutions..
1. Self-blame: Have you been bearing all the faults to yourself?
2. Lack Of Confidence: Have you been keeping all the opinions to yourself?
3. Natural Characteristic: Are you always shy?
4. Lack Of Chance: Do you have communication problems with your group of friends?
5. Cherishes Friendship: Are you afraid of saying the wrong things?
6. others

1. Look, not everything is your fault.. No one is born a jinx in this world.. If you think everyone is blaming you, think again.. They may be pushing responsibilities to you.. There’s no such thing as ‘Everything’s your fault’: If a plan is made, it failed and the plan got sued, not only the creator has fault, but those who joined or helped are at fault too, they made it fail..

2. Voice out your opinions.. Even if you are wrong, it’s alright.. Everyone makes mistakes.. If you voice out your opinion, there is at least a chance that your opinion may come to help..

3. Natural shy people are most vulnerable to being taken advantage of.. They are too shy to ask, to learn, to retaliate.. All they can do is to obey orders..

4. Join in the conversation.. Even if you have no idea on what to say, just make a simple comment.. It’s better than nothing.. Think of something funny related to the topic and make them laugh.. In this way, you’ve already become a part of the group..

5. Be it Friendship or Loveship.. Cherishing has a limit and must be kept at the back of your heart.. The front part of your heart is to get into a stronger relationship with who you want and saying anything as long as it is not offensive.. The back of your heart helps to keep your ‘Cherish’ and reminds you of the importance of that someone.. It refreshes your memory when you’ve offended the person, leaving him for someone else etc..

6. others

Be brave to protect yourself if you think you have been framed.. Be confident to talk to other people.. Don’t keep yourself alone, always find someone to go out with.. Talk about topics which you have a lot to say..

And you can never become emo..

~ by ViN-.- on November 23, 2007.